Hari ini melaporkan, banyak pengfailan perkahwinan antara umur 17 tahun dan 18 tahun di Malaysia, rata-rata dari mereka selepas habis pembelajaran di sekolah menengah. Perkahwinan itu mungkin sesetengah dari mereka yang sudah lama berkenalan di alam sekolah, di alam maya, mungkin juga 'family-match'. Jadi, konklusi untuk penghabisan waktu bujang atau waktu remaja dan terus menuju bagi mencipta sebuah kehidupan yang lama bersama kekasih hati perlu diikat atas dasar keimanan dan juga kasih sayang yang jitu agar tidak meruntunkan rumah tangga yang baru sahaja didirikan. * macam pemberita kat TV3 pulak, apesal pulak boleh skema*
Okaylah, aku buat ayat aku sendiri..
At last !I just wondering how they do manage their lifetime as being a student and a wife. Being a wife is not a simple task to do, but it quite difficult- I thought. I'am glad if I know their experiences thru their life. Maybe they might having a crucial time to let understand to each others, as well both are not in matured well. The level of thinking for teenagers and adults are quite differ. As a student, for me I want a freedom of my life, for example having fun with our friends; hanging out, do some sort of activities rohaniyah etc, instead we have a husband. I did not said that, having a husband is a burden for wife to care of. But the way to manage it. How it could be actually ? I just wondering. I want who have getting married please share your experiences to me =.=
Some of us said that, "after you'r getting married automatically you could manage it" .
You see, but not all the things we decide are not sure will be flow smoothly. You might face the difficulties. So we should musta'eeddan ye!
*Therefore, for those who will getting married for this year, I wish both of you could manage your life smoothly, greatly and readily with His help.Inshallah, He will ease your matter. Barakallahulakumawa jama'a bainakuma filkhair.
"if you can't to find who is your husband, let me find for you, I've already have my choice for you, " said ummi to me.
" Ohh, really, HAHA don't worry ummi, takdir di tangan Allah, I already have my choice too, you just wait and see, inshallah he is my best, HAHA"
" Oh really???! sejak bila berkenalan? why dont you introduce him to me?"
" HAHA, takdalahh, tipu jelahh ummi, kenapa ummi terlalu tercari-cari calon suami untuk along, along kan belajar lagi dan along belum bersedia lagi"
"Ummi risau, ermm I only have one daughter and one son, you and your little brother. You as my daughter you should pray to Him , hopefully you might get a good imam for your family to make sure your life is brightness with His Merciful and Pleasure.Inshallah, thus he might guides you for a better life in getting mardatillah. This is my hope"
" Inshallah, the man who would be my husband is a man who understands the Sunnah saw, I demand a man is always care of about Sunnah especially to strengthen akidah. Akidah is a vital matter for each Muslim, without it our life seems undead.Life sunnah is my life"
"Masyallahh,whatever the best for you, I always support you dear !
" Jazakillah ummi "terus aku hug ummi aku *terharu*
Then ummi whispered to me "dear, he gave regards to you"
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
.. "Ya Tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada kami isteri-isteri kami dan keturunan kami sebagai penyenang hati (kami) dan jadikanlah kami imam kepada orang-orang yang bertaqwa."